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We Need to Talk About Kevin Review

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2.5

Dave White Profile

What not to expect when you're expecting. Read full review

4.0

Grae Drake Profile

Get ready for goosebumps. Read full review

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Critics scores range from 0 to 100, with higher scores indicating more favorable reviews.

  • 4.0
    68

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    Metascore®
    Generally favorable reviews
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    critic review scores.

  • 100

    out of 100

    Chicago Sun-Times Roger Ebert

    As a portrait of a deteriorating state of mind, We Need to Talk About Kevin is a masterful film.

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  • 100

    out of 100

    Los Angeles Times Kenneth Turan

    It's a domestic horror story that literally gets to us where we live, a disturbing tale told with uncompromising emotionality and great skill by filmmaker Lynne Ramsay.

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  • 30

    out of 100

    Village Voice

    By treating Kevin's evil as a mystery to be solved, Ramsay only succeeds in making what was once allusive banal.

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  • 67

    out of 100

    Entertainment Weekly Owen Gleiberman

    The movie is creepy, but it has no texture or depth. It's like "The Omen" directed by Miranda July.

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  • 70

    out of 100

    The Hollywood Reporter Kirk Honeycutt

    This is, in a way, a real horror film about everyday things and a disconnected family.

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  • 80

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    The New York Times A.O. Scott

    Ms. Ramsay, with ruthless ingenuity, creates a deeper dread and a more acute feeling of anticipation by allowing us to think we know what is coming and then shocking us with the extent of our ignorance.

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  • 88

    out of 100

    ReelViews James Berardinelli

    A meditation on the pain suffered by a mother when her child turns out to be a monster, We Need to Talk about Kevin is the perfect tonic for holiday cheer.

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  • 90

    out of 100

    Variety Leslie Felperin

    An exquisitely realized adaptation of Lionel Shriver's bestselling novel. In a rigorously subtle performance as a woman coping with the horrific damage wrought by her psychopathic son, Tilda Swinton anchors the dialogue-light film with an expressiveness that matches her star turn in "I Am Love."

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For Families provided by Common Sense Media

Iffy for 16+

Bleak film about disturbed teen is difficult to watch.

What Parents Need to Know

Parents need to know that We Need to Talk About Kevin is a bleak drama that centers on a disturbed teen who commits a heinous act. The film's focus is on his mother and how she deals with the aftermath; it also portrays the tense atmosphere in their home as her son grows from a toddler to a high schooler, getting progressively more hostile. There's some swearing (including "f--k" and "s--t") and a few brief sex scenes (plus simulated masturbation), as well as several moments of intense violence, some of which involve a child and others of which include some blood. Most of the actual violence is off-screen, but these scenes are still quite intense, and the movie has a consistently creepy, gloomy atmosphere.

  • Families can talk about how the movie portrays Kevin. Why do you think he was the way he was? Was he disturbed from the start? Does that make it any easier to accept that he'd do the things he did?
  • Is there anything positive to be found in this movie in terms of messages or role models? If not, why do you think the filmmakers chose to tell this story?
  • What is the impact of violence in We Need to Talk About Kevin? Is it more or less disturbing than what you'd see in a horror movie? Why?

The good stuff
  • message true0

    Messages: There's little, if anything, that's positive in this bleak film about a family in which a deeply disturbed teen drives everyone around him to despair. Nobody is happy, nobody comes off well, and there's certainly not a happy ending.

  • rolemodels true0

    Role models: Kevin is an unrelentingly hostile child and an even nastier teen who makes every scene in this film overflow with foreboding and gloom. His mother struggles to be supportive and positive but is often overwhelmed and lets her frustration show in the face of his complete contempt, which is obvious from almost the day he's born.

What to watch for
  • violence false4

    Violence: The film has more foreboding than actual on-screen violence, yet the atmosphere is so creepy and gloomy that the anticipation might be worse than in other films where viewers actually get to see comparable acts. A woman slaps another woman out of rage, and a frustrated mother slaps a disobedient toddler. She later throws the child across the room, breaking his arm. A young girl loses an eye in an off-screen accident, and a beloved pet guinea pig is dispatched in an unpleasant manner. (Again, it's off-screen but the oppressive atmosphere is still disturbing.) The disturbed child taunts his mother using harsh language and seems to lack all empathy. The film's culmination is a horrific school attack in which bloody teens are shown being wheeled out on stretchers.

  • sex false3

    Sex: A few scenes of a couple having simulated sex, with brief partial nudity. A teenage boy is shown from the chest up as he masturbates.

  • language false4

    Language: Frequent use of strong language includes "f--k," "s--t," "bitch," "ass," and more.

  • consumerism false0

    Consumerism: Not an issue

  • drugsalcoholtobacco false3

    Drinking, drugs and smoking: A woman drinks plenty of red wine. Later, after a terrible tragedy, she increases her intake significantly, and there are plenty of corks and empty bottles littering her home, along with prescription pills.

Fan Reviews provided by

5

You have never by Spanishfly20
Second Time watching it, I, for the first time in life am speechless about a film. I have never been mentally disturbed about a film. I love it.. You will be talking about Kevin. The actors give you more than the suspension of disbelief, you forget is a film. So Realistic, and brutal.

4

Well-directed and thought provoking movie by cnolte23
A well-directed and thought provoking movie that looks at the old nature vs. nurture debate. I really loved the mothers memory sequences that are mixed in throughout the film are both gritty and realistic. Dad is in complete denial about the boy?s frightening nature. While Dad is at work all day, Mom?s home dealing with the boy terrorizing her. Dad thinks mom is delusional and blames her for the problems. Dad often acts like a big kid himself, playing video games with the boy and dismisses the bad behaviors as, ?that?s just what boys do.? Very interesting look at society, parenting and family dynamics.

1

We Need to Talk about Kevin by discerningwill
I want my money back! This movie was so painful to watch that we walked out halfway through. So much psychopathology and disfunction on the part of the mother. Why would anyone want to witness this unless they were paid to, and thought they could help. It amazes me that movies like this are made and people actually want to watch them. I made a mistake by not reading a review first, which I usually don't do because it can jade me, and I'd rather go into a movie without any preconceptions. A mistake not to this time. Does Regal have a refund or credit policy for movies that provide the opposite of entertainment and/or education? I spent $21 on what was a painful evening that took hours after to shed the emotional hook. My girlfriend was even worse off. Arggg I'm amazed that others are innured enough to this kind of disfunction and abuse to be attracted to this kind of experience. Or, maybe everyone reacted nearly the same way we did? I'd like to know.

1

A high school story by fandango448
Maybe a grammar school one, or at best sophomoric middle school psycho babble, misogynist plot where the Mother is all that controls the growth of a child, evolution and darwin be damned with their stupid genetic theories. So much for the plot. The movie is way over the top. Way way way more sophomoric than the plot. OK, after the cherry sandwich, we got it. And the lychee? why not an egg in a frying pan? cheap rip offs, and cheap use of the color red and silly music and soundtrack make this a 1 out of 5, given all the amazing producer who put their energy into it. After all, this is a story. Some stories are poor, some are close to being real. This one isn't. I lost 2 hours. So, to end by completing the review tips provided by Fandango: No, I didn't like the movie. The acting was very good, as was the directing. Cinematography was very childish, allusions and metaphors were weak and cliche. The movie is for kids. Even they may have a hard time believing the plot and the sub-pl

4

We Need to Talk About Kevin by chaseburgala
Its funny that I like this movie as much as I did, considering both the plot and the story, itself, left a little to be desired. Both seemed kinda tired and not very original. So, what did I like? The photography of this film was incredible. Bone chilling images lurked around every corner that boasted a stark sound design, as well. The movie had this milky dream quality to it and it made you empathize with Tilda Swinton's character in her current state and in her flashbacks. Then there was the acting...which was superb. I forgot, for most of the movie, that Tilda is a Brit. At times she was beautiful and other times, downright homely. Ezra Miller did a fine job as the evil Kevin. Although his deed (at the end) was a bit out of the realm of reality for me, Ezra did a fine job portraying Kevin as an embodiment of evil. He's the closest to Javier Bardem's portrayal of Anton Chigurh (my personal favorite form of evil) that I've seen since Anton, himself.

4

Liked it....stays with you......interesting in a disturbing way..... by bbryant43
what to do with the bad seed child....could it be nurtured or corrected into being a normal, loving person?? Divided parenting styles didn't help, and maybe nothing could, - conclusion leaves lots of questions.?

3

Not What I Thought It Would Be, But Well Acted by TheQueenB
Had high hopes for seeing this Friday the 13th, & after all the + reviews, but it wasn't as good as I hoped. The beginning was confusing & complex, making me think I would not be able to follow much longer (goes back & forth constantly in time in the story). Only in the very end does that all tie together. Dark & very well acted by all, but parts didnt make sense, such as the treatment of the moms character (Tilda Swenton) much of the time by several characters; which is all I will say there. Many moviegoers spoke of this point after the movie in fact. Also, the main plot was carried out unrealistically & some parts senseless. I didn't read the novel, so maybe that is how it was written, Im not sure. For sure interesting, sad, & a young, 'barely researched' main topic. My husband didnt like it. I thought it was OK. I would have rather rented it though than to go to NYC to see it in limited release like I did & pay full price.Just so-so. Not bad, not great.

5

We Need to Talk About Kevin by camburn320
My college roommate sent me this book from Ca. and I couldn't put it down. I sent it on to one of my sisters in Mi. and she as well as my other two sisters loved it. The movie followed the book very well and all the actors were amazing. You could just feel the mother's anguish. I loved the use of the color red in the movie. I was wondering if someone who hadn't read the book could follow all the flashbacks, but the other 5 people in my row of seats had not read the book and had no trouble. Very dark, sitting on the edge of your seat with anticipation dark. And the really scarey thing is we all have seen children who at times looked like Kevin. This is definitely not for kids. One of the woman in my row said she was going to get a hysterectomy!

3

We Need to Talk About Kevin by Peneflix
Tilda Swinton is "Eva Khatchadourian" an accomplished adventure writer, deliciously in love with her husband "Franklin" (John C. Reilly, shines), the mother of "Kevin"; the "mother" of the quintessential "bad seed". Ms. Swinton's performance is stoic, comatose; her chiseled, refined, plainly beautiful facade, keeps her intense suffering camouflaged and becomes robotic, zombie- like... There were too many frustrating, unaddressed questions: Franklin's blindness in recognizing Kevin's problems; lack of the therapeutic process, especially after a second child escalates Kevin's demonic traits; Eva's refusal to move from a place she always despised. Possibly, her penance for giving birth to the devil incarnate... Do "We Need To Talk About Kevin"? Not really. TWO & 1/2 STARS!! ***For full review please visit peneflix.com

4

We Need To Talk About Kevin by bgrajski
This is not a film for everyone, but I thought it was very good. A bit of a cross between psychological thriller and horror movie (although not the scary, suspenseful kind), it deals with the bad seed, nature vs. nurture theme. As a mother, I found it unsettling, as it gets to some of the core fears of being a "good" or "bad" parent, and how much we influence how our children turn out. Great performances by Tilda Swinton and Ezra Miller.

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