Iffy for 13+
Tragic romance is too intense for younger kids.
What Parents Need to Know
Parents need to know that, contrary to what the ad campaign might have you believe, this is a somewhat sad movie that deals with loss and grief -- not a straightforward romantic comedy. Its messages -- tell the people you care about that you love them before it's too late, and live life to the fullest -- are admirable, and its characters are goodhearted. But there's a fair amount of strong language (no "f--k," though there's plenty of "s--t" and "goddamn"), some frank talk about sex, and partial nudity. The movie also seems obsessed with getting the main character, Holly, hooked up with another man, as if that's the only fix for the widowed heart.
- Families can talk about how this movie compares to other romantic comedies. How does the sad premise affect the overall tone? Can approaching grief with humor help make it easier to bear? Why or why not? Also, why do you think so many people expect Holly to fall in love with someone else? Do Hollywood movies perpetuate the idea that, to move on after a loss, you have to fall in love again? Is that realistic? Does the film's ending, especially the part about romance, surprise you? Why?
The good stuff
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Messages: A woman sizes up men by their physical attributes (and talks loudly about it); friends fight and ignore each other or yell at each other on voicemail; a couple threatens to walk out on each other; a man's Tourette Syndrome is sometimes played for laughs. That said, in the end, the movie is about how friends and family members (dead or alive) support and love each other.
What to watch for
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Violence: A couple fights loudly, slamming doors. Grief scenes are emotionally painful.
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Sex: Couples kiss, sometimes while barely clothed in bed (though nothing but shoulders is glimpsed under the covers); men and women prance around in their underwear; one shot of a naked man's behind; close ups on abs; a woman discusses men's body parts candidly (and a man takes her to task for it); a woman propositions men in social situations.
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Language: Language includes "s--t," "a--hole," "son of a bitch," "goddamn," and the like.
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Consumerism: Some mention of specific products/brands, including eBay and Marc Jacobs (specifically, his shoes). Holly has a killer designer wardrobe that, in real life, she probably wouldn't be able to afford.
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Drinking, drugs and smoking: Some drinking in bars and at musical events, as well as at a funeral. A few times, Holly and her friends end up plastered.
Fan Reviews provided by
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Wonderful movie!! by NickiMarie
This movie was even better than I expected...I cried from beginning to end because it was so sweet!! This movie broke my heart, but by the end you're crying because you're so happy for her. It is a MUST SEE for every girl...espeically if you need a good cry! ;o)
5
P.S. I Love You by berickson45
I took a friend of mine Danielle K. to the movie as a date. When I pre-purchased the tickets through Fandango it allowed us to avoid waiting for 30+ people in line. (Which really impressed my date) V.I.P. service! Movie was excellent! Perfect for any date!
-Braden E.
5
GREAT MOVIE... Sad and FUNNY.. A definite CHICK FLICK by katdlee
I absolutely loved this movie... It was such a wonderful story, but ohhh so sad. I think i bawled most of the movie.. My friend and I went through a pack of tissues.
But it was also very funny... When we werent laughing we were crying..lol
. It will make you fall in love with her husband and want to take a trip to Ireland :-)
I would like to see this again in the theater and i will also purchase it as soon as its released on DVD for my collection... If you like love stories... GO SEE IT...
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Why oh Why? by ink11011
I really wanted to like P.S I Love You. It seemed to have all the elements for a great movie, so what happened? For one, the movie was much to long for the simple outline it seemed to follow. For two, the characters really seemed very boring. There was so much of this movie that simply could have been cut out. At points in the movie when it would flash back to the past there seemed not to be any real strong connection to the present which most of the movie is set in. I almost wanted to forget all about the present and know more about the past "Holly" & "Gerry" shared. I felt like at the point that "Gerry" dies, which is early on, so does also the movie. It just didn't seem to come to life although Hilary Swank really did her best to put forth the energy to do so. Overall I think this is more a movie to rent than to see in the theater.
5
A MASTERPIECE! by TanyathePrincess
This movie sucked any and every tear my eyes can produce right out. I could NOT STOP crying!! It was the most beautiful love story ever. The way she loved him, then was just left alone. After he died, I started bawling every time it showed him on screen. I love how much they love each other! And this movie showed me that Hilary Swank can be REALLY cute! It was truly adorable. This movie couldn't get enough praises from me. Words cannot describe how it affected me and the way I look ay my relationship! I've learned to cherish every moment, because one day he might just be gone...
5
soul cleansing by wheatley
even given the content i did not expect to encounter such an emotional rollercoaster of a movie. i laughed, i cried, and cried, and cried, but even all those napkins later (wasn't expecting so many tears), I felt uplifted. The relationships and dynamics between men and women, mothers and daughters, husbands and wives, lovers and friends, were all fantasticly real. I would see it again in a heartbeat!
5
omg this movie is a must see!! by babe7ms
this movie was the best ive ssen so far.... i loved it the plot, storyline was amazing....this movie is worth every penny.... and it makes you think just about life... i loved it n cant wait till it comes on dvd.. lol......go watch it!(with your girlfriends)
5
LOVED IT!! by MDanadic
Aren't the tears don't come out until the end of the movie? Oh, no.. Make sure you bring an extra box of kleenex for this one. It is definatley a heart warming film with wonderful acting by Hillary Swank. You walk out of the theatre and catch yourself calling your spouse telling them, "PS I LOVE YOU". Definatley go! This is a good movie for Valentines Day.
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P.S take the timeout to see this movie by Mscalideb
I went to see this movie at one min. to midnight the day before it opened. I took the ristk because I figured I live in a part of Ca. where thate are a lot of snow birds and didn't think many would venture out that late to see a movie and I was right. It was great for me since I am going through chemotherapy right now and am not supposed to go to the theater. But Gerard Butler was worth the risk. I was so surprised by the performance by Lisa Kudrow she was wonderful in this movie. I must say that just as I was first to see this movie here I will probably be first to buy this movie when it comes out on dvd.
Don't believe everything the critics write, they didn't like forsest gump either and rated captain corellie's mandolin one of the best films ever made! So who can trust that? I'm not saying this movie is perfect because it does have a couple of gaps in the story line that can leave you confused for a second but it's endearing and worth watching.
5
P.S. I Love You by katietaiter
This movie was absolutely amazing. The characters did a fabulous job. Hillary Swank is unbelievable in this movie. Bring tons of tissue, I cried pretty much the whole movie, but I laughed plenty too! You must see this movie. It's phenomenal. :]